The Big Read - Updated!

Courtesy of ktbuffy:

1) Look at the list and bold those you have read.
2) Italicize those you intend to read.
3) Asterisk (*) the books you LOVE.
Courtesy of SharonGR, I'm adding:
4) Exclaim (!) those you HATED.

1 Pride and Prejudice - Jane Austen
2 The Lord of the Rings - JRR Tolkien
3 Jane Eyre - Charlotte Bronte
4 Harry Potter series - JK Rowling
5 To Kill a Mockingbird - Harper Lee
6 The Bible
!!7 Wuthering Heights - Emily Bronte
8 Nineteen Eighty Four - George Orwell
9 His Dark Materials - Philip Pullman
10 Great Expectations - Charles Dickens
11 Little Women - Louisa M Alcott
!12 Tess of the D’Urbervilles - Thomas Hardy
13 Catch 22 - Joseph Heller
14 Complete Works of Shakespeare
15 Rebecca - Daphne Du Maurier
16 The Hobbit - JRR Tolkien
17 Birdsong - Sebastian Faulks
!18 Catcher in the Rye - JD Salinger
**19 The Time Traveller’s Wife - Audrey Niffenegger
20 Middlemarch - George Eliot
**21 Gone With The Wind - Margaret Mitchell
!22 The Great Gatsby - F Scott Fitzgerald
23 Bleak House - Charles Dickens
24 War and Peace - Leo Tolstoy
***25 The Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy - Douglas Adams
26 Brideshead Revisited - Evelyn Waugh
27 Crime and Punishment - Fyodor Dostoyevsky
!28 Grapes of Wrath - John Steinbeck
29 Alice in Wonderland - Lewis Carroll
30 The Wind in the Willows - Kenneth Grahame
31 Anna Karenina - Leo Tolstoy
32 David Copperfield - Charles Dickens
*33 Chronicles of Narnia - CS Lewis
34 Emma - Jane Austen
35 Persuasion - Jane Austen
*36 The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe - CS Lewis
**37 The Kite Runner - Khaled Hosseini
38 Captain Corelli’s Mandolin - Louis De Bernieres
39 Memoirs of a Geisha - Arthur Golden
40 Winnie the Pooh - AA Milne
41 Animal Farm - George Orwell
42 The Da Vinci Code - Dan Brown
43 One Hundred Years of Solitude - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
*44 A Prayer for Owen Meaney - John Irving
45 The Woman in White - Wilkie Collins
46 Anne of Green Gables - LM Montgomery
47 Far From The Madding Crowd - Thomas Hardy
*48 The Handmaid’s Tale - Margaret Atwood
49 Lord of the Flies - William Golding
50 Atonement - Ian McEwan
51 Life of Pi - Yann Martel
52 Dune - Frank Herbert
53 Cold Comfort Farm - Stella Gibbons
54 Sense and Sensibility - Jane Austen
55 A Suitable Boy - Vikram Seth
56 The Shadow of the Wind - Carlos Ruiz Zafon
57 A Tale Of Two Cities - Charles Dickens
58 Brave New World - Aldous Huxley
59 The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time - Mark Haddon
60 Love In The Time Of Cholera - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
61 Of Mice and Men - John Steinbeck
62 Lolita - Vladimir Nabokov
63 The Secret History - Donna Tartt
64 The Lovely Bones - Alice Sebold
65 Count of Monte Cristo - Alexandre Dumas
66 On The Road - Jack Kerouac
67 Jude the Obscure - Thomas Hardy
*68 Bridget Jones’s Diary - Helen Fielding
69 Midnight’s Children - Salman Rushdie
70 Moby Dick - Herman Melville
71 Oliver Twist - Charles Dickens
72 Dracula - Bram Stoker
73 The Secret Garden - Frances Hodgson Burnett
74 Notes From A Small Island - Bill Bryson
75 Ulysses - James Joyce
76 The Bell Jar - Sylvia Plath
77 Swallows and Amazons - Arthur Ransome
78 Germinal - Emile Zola
79 Vanity Fair - William Makepeace Thackeray
80 Possession - AS Byatt
81 A Christmas Carol - Charles Dickens
**82 Cloud Atlas - David Mitchell
83 The Color Purple - Alice Walker
84 The Remains of the Day - Kazuo Ishiguro
!!!85 Madame Bovary - Gustave Flaubert
86 A Fine Balance - Rohinton Mistry
87 Charlotte’s Web - EB White
88 The Five People You Meet In Heaven - Mitch Albom
89 Adventures of Sherlock Holmes - Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
90 The Faraway Tree Collection - Enid Blyton
91 Heart of Darkness - Joseph Conrad
92 The Little Prince- Antoine De Saint-Exupery
93 The Wasp Factory - Iain Banks
94 Watership Down - Richard Adams
!!95 A Confederacy of Dunces - John Kennedy Toole
96 A Town Like Alice - Nevil Shute
97 The Three Musketeers - Alexandre Dumas
98 Hamlet - William Shakespeare
99 Charlie and the Chocolate Factory - Roald Dahl
100 Les Miserables - Victor Hugo

Happy Friday!

Free Tuition for Harvard

Definitely wanted to pass this on...

From their Financial Aid website (emphasis added):
"Building on the success of the Harvard Financial Aid Initiative (HFAI), which eliminated the parental contribution from families earning $60,000 or less, Harvard recently announced major financial aid enhancements to ensure greater affordability for middle- and upper-middle income families. Beginning in the 2008–09 academic year, parents with incomes of $180,000 or less will be asked to contribute significantly less to the cost of a Harvard education. Additionally, home equity will no longer be considered in determining a family’s ability to contribute and students will not be expected to take out loans, which will be replaced by need-based Harvard scholarship."

Cool stuff.

Wow! I Can't Shut Up Today

I just found out that George Carlin died.

It may seem counter-intuitive to those who know me (hmmm, what do I do for a living again?), but this is one of my favorites of his routines (especially the bit from about 2:50 to 6:05):



Rest in peace.

One More Thing Before I Go

I want to link to this before I forget.

Another blogger found this 1984 New York magazine article about the gentrification of the East Village. It's sort of eerie how much of it still rings true today. I guess gentrification takes a long time...

The Lower East Side: There goes the neighborhood

While I'm Gone...

Read Andi's blog!

It's been sitting over there on the righthand side of this page for ages, but she just recently recommitted herself to blogging regularly (something I need to do, I know).

By way of quick introduction, Andi and I roomed together in college for 2 years. And, given that the famous people in history always seemed to have known each other (think the Algonquin roundtable, Edith Wharton & Henry James, Al Gore & Tommy Lee Jones--also college roommates), I have always considered this to be my guarantee that I will one day be famous...because she is way too talented to remain unknown.

So, go forth and enjoy one of the most elegant and lyrical writers I know. But do promise you'll check back here occasionally. I mean, c'mon, you knew me first.

I'm Off...

...to Cleveland! (I know, I know, contain your jealousy, please, it's very unbecoming.)

Anyway, for your entertainment, in honor of the fact that Cleveland is home to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, I give you Joan Jett:

Cool Site of the Day

This site helps you coordinate calendars with people to figure out when is the best day/time to meet.

http://whenisgood.net/FAQ

What Did I Do Last Weekend? Or, Jaya Plays With Her New Camera-Phone

Friday, Mom and I went to the Metropolitan Museum of Art.

The primary purpose of our visit was to hear a lecture on Katharine Hepburn by Katharine Houghton (her niece), but while we were there we also had afternoon tea in the Petrie Court Cafe and saw the Jeff Koons exhibit on the roof:





(Note: I think if you click on the images you can see a larger version.)

Something to Ponder

The hubby and I were introduced to Paul Winter by my stepmother. We are now avid fans of his solstice concerts, held every year at St. John the Divine. In fact, we'll be getting up at 3am this Saturday to attend this year's Summer Solstice concert (one performance only!). Anyway, because I am on the Paul-Winter-fan mailing list, I received this, which I thought was worth sharing:

PARENTS PARTY
A Message for Father's Day
Paul Winter
Mid June, 08

The political campaigns of the last several months have given me pause. All the
divisiveness has inspired me to ponder more deeply one of my favorite subjects: the
universals – the things people care about in common all over the world, the common
ground where we might stand, and even dance, together. At this point in my journey I've become quite clear on what may be our most universal value. It's kids. So I have this vision of a Parents Party, an unofficial league of all parents of the planet, and not just parents, but everyone who loves children.

I came into the realm of parenthood somewhat later than most of my contemporaries. I
was 56 when my first child was born, and it wasn't long before I got a new name: "Daddy." I've been quite proud of this name. It has a special ring to it. Then, when I was 65, our second daughter came along, and now once again there's a toddler running around the house, calling me by my new name. So I think this title's going to stick. And what better one could I hope for? Governor? President? No thanks. "Daddy" is as good as it gets. It resonates of a relationship, a role. It's an honorific.

So now, wherever I am, walking through an airport or along a city street, and I hear a little voice calling out "Daddy," I turn around, automatically. And even though it's someone else's child, I feel some sense of relatedness, and it makes me feel glad. As I continue on my way, I wonder about that Dad, and imagine how, if we met, that it wouldn't matter if he and I disagreed on most everything under the sun; I'm absolutely certain that we would agree that what's most important in our respective worlds are these little persons who have come into our lives and awakened our fountain of love. And that the highest priority in each of our lives is to do what we can to provide a safe and healthy world for them, and their life-journey. I can't imagine there's a Dad, or a Mom, anywhere on this planet, who doesn't want that for their child.

Why can't we have our modes of governance based on this universal? In this realm, this common realm of love, there are no political differences. We don't have some people calling their love "liberal" and others saying theirs is "conservative. " It's beyond all that. Love is love. And I think that's where we all really want to live.

So I dream of this Parents Party, spreading spontaneously around the world. It will have no organization, no fundraising, no propaganda – none of that debilitating stuff. It'll just be a word-of-mouth thing, person-to-person. We'll just talk about our kids and get out the photos and have a good smile together. We'll know what to do then. And we'll keep this old Earth spinnin'.

The Things You Notice When You're Paying Attention

So, I'm sitting here, minding my own business, watching "Frequency," when I suddenly realize that Gordy Jr. is being played by a very young Michael Cera of Arrested Development, Juno, and Superbad fame.

Later Gator!

Just a quick post to let you know programming will be temporarily suspended while I jet off to Boston for work for a couple days.

Oh, What a Night!

(I meant to post this yesterday, but for reasons that will reveal themselves later, never got to it.)

Wow.

Obama did it! I am incredibly psyched that he pulled it off.

And while he was doing that, I was at the True Colors Concert at Radio City Music Hall.

To be honest, I got the tickets based mostly on the fact that the Indigo Girls were going to be there and this is their only tour date in the NYC-area. That they weren't headlining was slightly offset by the fact that Cyndi Lauper and the B-52s were. So I recruited a couple of people to go with me and didn't think much more about it. I didn't go to the tour website or learn anything else about it until we were there.

It was quite a night.

First of all, being the cheap person that I am, I had gotten upper-upper-upper mezzanine tickets. But, as we were trekking up to our seats in the boonies, an usher stopped us and asked if wanted to sit in the orchestra. ("Um, no. We want to keep our crappy seats please.") So we turned around and went back downstairs to approximately 20th row orchestra. Cool.

Then there was the lineup:
The whole thing was emceed by Carson Kressley, of "Queer Eye" fame. He was entertaining, but I certainly wouldn't go to or see anything just because he was there.

The Cliks - clearly an opening band, they weren't my favorite, but the lead singer (Lucas Silveira) definitely has that "thing"--magnetism, confidence, a killer voice--that should mean we'll all be hearing more from him in the future.

The Indigo Girls - they only did about 5 songs (Galileo, Pendulum Swinger,* one I can't remember the name of, Kid Fears, and Closer to Fine) but they were fabulous as always. Made me long for the days when I would go to their concerts at Wolftrap. Next time they're there, I think a road trip is definitely in order.
[*"Pendulum Swing" is their song inspired by the Bush administration which--in a nod to the Dixie Chicks flap--they were very clear to say in their intro, "Hey. It's only a pop song."]


Kate Clinton - a lesbian feminist standup comic. I'd heard her name before but never seen her stuff. She was great. Very "New York-intellectual."

Regina Spektor - I had never heard her before and she was freakin' amazing. For her first song, she came out on stage alone, picked up a mike and started singing. She tapped the microphone to create a beat line, but was otherwise unaccompanied. After the first song, she moved over the piano and you could tell she had been classically trained. Both vocally and musically, she was incredibly versatile and creative. At one point, she was playing the piano with one hand, playing a chair as a drum with the other AND singing. Talk about multi-tasking. We were beyond being surprised when she got up and played guitar for another number ("Of COURSE she also plays guitar.")

Rosie O'Donnell - Needs no introduction, of course. Unfortunately, she was not in top form. I think the whole "View" fracas (which I didn't follow) really got to her.

The B-52s - What can I say? One of the high points of my concert-going experiences is now dancing to "Love Shack" being sung live by the B-52s and bang-bang-banging on the door in sync with the band. Just fun.

Margaret Cho - Mostly made me realize that it's ironic that lesbians and gays get lumped together all the time because they really don't have much in common.

And, of course:

Cyndi Lauper - Cyndi was fabulous. She was probably the best performer of the evening. Lots of energy, lots of joy, a great voice. I loved her as a teenager, but have to admit that I haven't listened to her stuff in years (partly because I had her on vinyl and so she never made the transition to my iPod), but I foresee some digital downloads in my future.

And then there was the cause. The True Colors tour was created by Cyndi Lauper (per the tour website) "to raise awareness about the discrimination the GLBT community still faces and raise significant funds for the organizations that work everyday on their behalf." Throughout the evening, there was a message of tolerance as well as a push to get out the vote.

As I said to my friends as we were leaving, "What a night. Great entertainment AND a socially responsible cause."

One final note: In my I-didn't-research-this-thing-beforehand state of mind, I assumed the concert would be 2 or maybe 3 hours long. It ran FIVE HOURS. Amazing.

Chowdah Begone!

Last week in this space, I reported that I had actually gained 3lbs, which I am fully attributing to all the New England Clam Chowder I consumed over Memorial Day weekend while we were up at the Cape.

I am happy to report that this week I am down 3.8lbs, which is my "chowder weight" plus a little extra.

I can't find anything Scrabble-related that weighs 3.8 lbs, so I'm going to cheat a little this week and use something from the "Customers Who Bought This Item Also Bought..." feature on Amazon, namely:


All hail the cult! (And clam chowder. Believe me, it was worth the temporary setback.When my cult leader asked me what I did differently this week to rack up such a big loss, I simply replied, "I didn't eat clam chowder." )

It's the Little Things

Back at work after a GREAT weekend.

What made it great, you ask?

Well, part of it, believe it or not, was the fact that I had time on Saturday morning to actually RUN ERRANDS. I got to go to the post office, the shoemaker, AND the dry cleaners. While I was doing that, our lovely cleaning service was cleaning our apartment and so, after errands, I had enough time to get my eyebrows waxed and get a pedicure. Considering that I haven't had time to do ANY of these things in the past several months, getting them all done in one morning left me positively euphoric.

And that was just one small piece of the weekend.

Friday I spent the afternoon with a dear friend getting caught up and acting like "ladies who lunch."

Friday evening the hubby and I saw Bill Maher at NJPAC. Hilarious and on-point. (My favorite line: "Let's see, we've had War--Iraq, Flood--Katrina, Famine--the current food crisis...all we need is Locusts and Bush is officially the Anti-Christ.")

Saturday afternoon, we saw "Thurgood" with Lawrence Fishburne, which was EXCELLENT. Made me proud and ashamed to be an American in the same moment. Powerful stuff.

Also Saturday afternoon, we had a late lunch/early dinner at Becco, one of my favorite restaurants. (Yes, all you cult fans out there, bonus points were used.)

Saturday evening, I saw the Neo-Futurists, which was definitely experience. One that I might try again sometime.

Sunday, we bought flowers for the terrace planters (finally!) which I planted and then sat down to enjoy. It was the first day I've had time to sit on our terrace this year.

Sunday evening, I had my writers' group and then went to see my friend do Leonard Cohen covers at the Slaughtered Lamb.

All in all, a fun-filled (and yet very relaxing) weekend. Yay!